11/10/19 "SpillingThe Tea"

11/10/19

5 Minutes of Focus 

"Spilling The Tea"

But Onan knew that the child would not be his; so whenever he slept with his brother's wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from providing offspring for his brother. 

Genesis 38:9 NIV

As gross as the visual scene for this portion of scripture is to imagine...

Some of you don't have to imagine this at all, because right now, you're involved with someone who only likes the feel of you, but they have no intentions of ever reproducing anything tangible with you. What you have with them today is all you will ever have with them tomorrow or any day thereafter. 

Any time, they go so far as to spill their sement on the ground...I think it's safe to say, they're not interested in  growing your family, or  becoming a family with you.  They're wasting sement. They're wasting YOU.  

BELOVED, Wake Up and  smell the roses, wake up and sip some of this tea I'm spilling because it's the truth spoken in love, and the bible tells us that  INSTEAD OF (the alternative) the truth should be spoken in love. Ephesians 4:15

God did not create you to be somebody's feel good option ONLY, to be somebody's clause B.

But I 'm mighty afraid that's what you're doing the longer you allow they're unwillingness to commit or at least take responsibility for their actions to continue.

Onan didn't want to continue his dead brother's legacy by having a child with the wife he left behind, a child that wouldn't even be considered his and in a way that's understandable.

WHAT MAN WANTS TO GIVE UP HIS RIGHTS TO HIS CHILD, TO HIS OFFSPRING ?

But still, that doesn't excuse the fact that he didn't hesitate to sleep with her and he kept sleeping with her, spilling his sement on the ground whenever he did...So, it seems she was, you are, good enough to sexually please him, but nothing else.

Onan, Abram who didn't hesitate when asked to sleep with Hagar (Genesis 16) and Jacob who kept sleeping with Leah, even though he didn't love her like that (Genesis 29)...Brothers like this need to learn to control themseves sexually, especially when that's all it is. YOU DESERVE BETTER.

Until Next Sunday.

LPS~ Love, Prophetess Stacy